Okay so things with PR fell through. We don’t have to go through a long
drawn out drama about what happened, we just weren’t right for each other
(future post to come on his fetish).
Three days later, I found a dude in his 20s to do, so congratulate me, assholes,
for I have passed on to cougar-dom.
I won’t go into too much detail about him or how we met
aside from the fact that he asked me for a drink and he’s the best sex I’ve
had. He’s as passionate, if not
more, than Lucifer (that Columbian/Brazilian guy I used to do). His pseudo is TI (for reasons that I have removed as of late).
Although I’m usually into older guys, he’s been a great
change of pace. I’m not sure if
he’s actually attracted to the fact that I could be his sugar momma (and/or he
has “mommy syndrome”) or if actually thinks I’m that beautiful (close friends
know why this is a sticking point).
And at this moment in time, I don’t even fucking care because when you
have the best sex you’ve ever had in your bed every night, life is good.
It might just be the drought, or I’m just getting older, but
goddamn do younger guys know how to give it. Is this what I’ve been missing by shrugging off all these
baby-faced guys who want a chance at my bedroom? I surrender to my Higher Power, forgive me.
TI and I have only been “seeing” each other for about 2
weeks or so, so I can’t go into any big analysis of him, but he’s not so
bad. I can give up a few days a
week of sleep in order to get mine.
I honestly can’t remember the last time I’ve been this satisfied. I was actually nervous about sleeping
with him, because he was about an inch more than I am used to, but we made it
work (just like a friend told me over lunch one day, shout out to you, you know
who you are).
So enough elation for one post, let’s talk science. Evolutionary research supports theories
based on age preference since for fairly obvious reasons, a younger female is
more viable. She has a higher
chance of genetically viable offspring as well as younger eggs, which have a
lower chance of mutations before/during/after gestation.
That’s the obvious one, but really what is the appeal in a
younger male? For a female, there
is a higher risk that he would not be able to provide resources and even if he
could, a younger male is more likely to go astray if that genetically viable
female happens to walk by.
The superficial research I came across points to all the
blatant reasons why a younger male is sometimes preferred. The sex is great (I can HIGHLY condone
this). Since they are more likely
to go astray, females with commitment issues don’t have to worry about him
getting clingy or attached. And
lastly, they’re just fun. They’re
into everything and are less offended if you decide you want to sleep at 2am
instead of fuck (I did regret it in the morning, though).
Age is always such a bullshit excuse to date someone or not
date someone or to sex them (or not).
Like who the fuck cares? I
was never one to care. I’ve dated
guys 15+ years older than me, and guys 8+ years younger than me. I always said that you should try out a
wide range in order to determine what you really like. Truth be told, while I haven’t decided
which side of the spectrum I prefer, I’m leaning towards the latter.
Because I was recently burned with PR, I haven’t opened
myself up to TI. He is in his
early 20s, fresh out of college.
Not sure he even understands the difference between “dating” and “doing”,
but no time like the present to learn.
I know, it sounds like dangerous territory, and it probably is, but have
you ever known me to be concerned about that?
Sure, I don’t know how I feel about him, it’s only been two
weeks, but we are just having sex.
And sure I’m a self-proclaimed sugar momma, but I’m not sure he has
proven himself worthy of being my sugar baby (is that the word? It sounds weird). So while I’m deciding what I want to do
with him, I’ll just enjoy the sex (and dinner, when he cooks for me) and keep
you posted on all the freaky shit we do.
The drought?
Officially over and the rivers are overflowing….
